Generation X Anger – Is It Warranted?

Does anyone ever feel any anger or resentment toward the baby boomers?

I have spent probably the last twenty years (I am forty-three) debating this, and have first come to the conclusion that if no one else does, apparently I do, although I believe there is some generational undertow that many of us younger Americans feel ... but just can’t quite put a finger on it.

Disclaimer! I do love so many great boomers. When you break down that generation into individuals, I don’t really “hate” them or feel direct anger. It’s the entire group of them that has me in an emotional fix. Let me add that I was born in 1965, which by most calculations, places me exactly one year after “that generation,” the ones born from 1946-1964.

This makes me what one could call an “old” Generation X-er, or even debatably, among a group of people that are called “tweeners,” those of us who are too young to get the Boomers, yet too old to get the younger Gen X-ers, who are considered more tech-savvy.

We are the ones who actually lived our precious twenties through Ronald Reagan’s presidency in the 1980s, that time that is now looked at behind rose-colored glasses by seemingly everyone. It was not a time of job growth or environmental insight.

And Mr. Reagan cut social programs down to next to nothing and it was during his “reign” that the horrendous stereotype of unwed women (particularly of color) taking welfare for each baby they had was magnified recklessly into the political landscape, simultaneously perpetuating both the villainy of women and race.

I graduated during the Orwellian year of 1984, and my cohorts, both male and female, had significant difficulty finding jobs. Computer technology was beginning to bloom, but my age group had nary a notion of what that meant.

So I was part of the group that went on to college, if not for the higher learning, then for the fact that there were no jobs for us young folks in the eighties. Manufacturing jobs were dominated by boomers, who have and have held an iron grip on the good-paying jobs in the Midwest.

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09.23.2009
Cecile
I can't speak for the Midwest but here in California its been bad since Reagan was governor. My hubby and I (both late boomers) watched our jobs disappear,the small businesses succumb to box stores,the role of women changed to superhumans, mentally ill put onto the streets,the poor labeled as villians,health benefits and a living wage become unattainable. All of us had to move from the places we grew up in. I never could quite afford that American dream. I agree we may have dropped the ball on yours rights while we've been raising "tweens" and trying to survive.I'm not being sarcastic. I'm sorry. I'm also sorry for the "tweens" who seem to be even less apt to achieve the dream, my kids are among them. I still fight for what I believe in though many have stopped. I still believe that small efforts can achieve great things if we all band together. I pray that is still possible regardless of our ages.
09.22.2009
M. Johnson
Some fuzzy thinking and writing here. The author talks about "sell out" but really that phrase needs to be defined and deconstructed. Not only were there some non-hippies among the boomer generation, hippies were only ever a small proportion of the people. So it is a fallacy if one is trying to take the hippie philosophy, generalize without ever specifying what that means, and then rebuke a whole age group for not following it. That is just an example, may or may not be what the author is trying to say. I am sorry your wages are so low. I did not make that happen, it certainly is not the case that older people "took" a share that could be yours. You probably don't want to hear this, but think for awhile on the millions and billions of people outside the USA who have even less. Some of them are now invited to build and trade things that used to be internal to the USA, and letting them participate is good for at least the rest of the world. Every generation disapproves of the one before
07.07.2009
Tracy King
It's wonderful, regardless of our degrees of difference, to read what you all are saying. Shalaseia, I am going to read your story today. I have to say though, that I had a job all through college too, actually two. I am also a "union person" and my politics lean Democrat. LIke what Heart-shaped Rock said though... unions can tend toward allowing/promoting mediocracy and laziness. But about the comments to "stop whining" - hee hee. As, yes, a Gen X'er, I have spent a long, long time *not* complaining! I am writing under a freaking pseudonym, for goodness sakes. It's just two small articles on a cool website. I'm frustrated that there are millions of X'ers, we in our 30s and 40s - in our "prime" - who are out of work. Where can we put this blame? Ourselves? Sure, there's enough blame to go around. The Boomers are to blame too. It's happening on their watch...
07.07.2009
Shalaseia
had to have someone tell me I need to work to earn my pay I knew that is what you are suppsoed to do. Just like in school when you want that A you worked hard to get it to get your paycheck you must work hard, when I found out about the incentive program it befuddled me. You have to incent people to do their job, you have to incent people to go above and beyond it was and still is a ridiculous idea. There were so many people cheating and hooking up their friends when their friends were their managers. People lied and stole this environemnt was fostered by upper management to make the company more money, not for anyone to get a bigger paycheck. If you did not make the goals that was supposed to give you more money at the end of the month 3 months in a row you were put on notice. We can be mad at everybody in the world, go read my story, the thing is so what. What are we going to do now? That is the question, women could not vote, Black people were Slaves...move on make it better
07.07.2009
Shalaseia
Do you want some cheese with your whine, hard work is what it takes and hard work is what we all must do. I was born in 1966 so I am younger than you but I can see we had vastly differently experiences. I too graduated from high school in 1984, I went to college and held a parttime job the whole time, sometime working fulltime hours. I am a Union person my family are union people. With that when the company I worked for slowly moved it out, it allowed the management to play favorites with my hours and my money to give their friends the hours I normaly worked because I had put in the time to earn those hours. As far as Unions making people lazy, when I worked in Corp American I worked with some of the laziest people I had ever met. People who had self appointed entitlement to what they were doing and it was not the boomers it was people my age and younger. The company had system of giving out incentives to those who worked the hardest. This ideology was lost on me because I never
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